What does Lilith represent in Astrology? Think of her as your inner temptress that is living in the shadows of your psyche.
Lilith aspects in synastry are loaded with intrigue, obsession and more importantly, a dark magnetism, which makes them one of the most mysterious aspects found in a synastry chart.
When Lilith aspects are activated in your relationship, she does not only bring out primal instincts, desires, and shadow personalities of each other to the surface, but more often than not she also triggers issues surrounding jealousy, being desired and self indulgence.
This is because Lilith’s energy is passively dominant, consuming and overwhelming. Hard aspects with Lilith brings out the darker nature of both partners, whether it is aggression, compulsion or even promiscuity.
If you don’t have Lilith aspects in your synastry chart, it doesn’t mean your relationship will lack passion. As a matter of fact, if there are no other supportive aspects, Lilith relationships do not usually last.
In terms of sexuality, Lilith energy is very similar of Pluto. And also just like the Pluto Aspects in Synastry, Lilith does not predict a harmonious, stable and romantic connection. She often ignites that initial spark of sexual chemistry that pulls you towards each other. With it, both partners indulge their individualistic desires through each other.
Let’s explore some of the Lilith aspects you may find in your synastry chart in detail:
Lilith-Sun Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square)
This connection burns hotter than the Sun! What Lilith person brings to the table in this relationship is an untamed sexual energy.
With Lilith conjunct Sun, Sun is being seduced by the Lilith person to bring out their dark side to the surface. In this relationship, Lilith will want to push the boundaries of the Sun person’s ego.
When Lilith person wants to overpower Sun, expect issues around obsession, possessiveness and anger.
In the cases of Lilith opposite or square Sun aspects, these issues are more prominent and therefore often leads to a hot affair that burns too quickly.
Lilith-Moon Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square)
Lilith-Moon aspects indicate deep, dark, sexually charged emotions that cannot be ignored. Moon person subconsciously will recognize and want to nurture and heal whatever Lilith needs to clear away.
With Lilith conjunct Moon, Moon person’s emotional depths are stirred by the Black Moon Lilith’s seductive ways, Lilith person often ends up triggering Moon’s core wounds and primitive instincts.
With Moon in opposition or square with Lilith, the friction between you is felt more intensely.
Lilith trine Moon aspect in synastry often represent a strong physical attraction and is more harmonious than the rest.
Lilith-Mars Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square)
Lilith-Mars aspects are all about clash of desires. They often indicate a desire to sexually conquer/arouse one another. Both of them are loaded with sexual power, so their interaction is often explosive.
Mars conjunct Lilith aspect partners like to indulge each other’s dark sexual desires. Mars person will want to dominate the relationship, whereas Lilith mostly cares about her desirability through the eyes of Mars.
Mars opposite Lilith aspect is also very sexually charged, but it also may trigger sexual aggression and obsession. If there are no other harmonious aspects in your synastry chart, after a while you may get too infuriated with each other.
Mars square Lilith indicates a locked energy and may trigger violent tendencies in both partners.
Lilith trine/sextile Mars aspects are similar to Mars conjunct Lilith, although with less intensity in sexuality and conflicts.
Lilith-Venus Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square)
Lilith conjunct Venus is always very intense and sexual. Venus person will want to show her softer, romantic side by cuddling and showering Lilith with affection. Lilith person enjoys this attention of Venus but doesn’t want to completely let herself go and be vulnerable.
Therefore, especially with Lilith opposition Venus, the relationship may suffer from secrets and lies.
With hard Lilith-Venus aspects, biggest issues are often about self-worth, sexual taboos and desirability.
Venus square Lilith represents an intriguing, flirtatious connection where both partners learn about themselves through each other.